You want to talk. They shut down. You need closeness. They need space. You’re stuck in the same pattern again and again. In this video, I break down the Wave/Island dynamic (also known as Pursue/Withdraw), and explain how nervous system differences, not personality flaws, create the cycle. ✨ You’re not the problem. The pattern is. Let’s change it. Schedule some time with me: https://bethpiercetherapy.sessionshealth.com/ #waveandisland #pursuewithdraw #couplestherapy #attachme