You're tired of the same patterns
Whether you're dating and it keeps going the same way, or you're in a relationship that's gotten harder to reach than it used to be, let's figure out what's getting in the way.
You don't have to be in crisis for therapy to be helpful. People reach out when dating has started to feel like a lot of effort for very little return, when they notice the same thing happening with different people, or when a relationship they care about has gotten harder than it should be. Therapy can be a place to understand what's happening and begin moving toward something different.
Why I do this work
I became a therapist because of therapy. I was dating, I was repeating patterns I couldn't see from the inside, and sitting across from someone who could see them changed the direction of my life. It's the reason I do this work, and it's why I take dating seriously as real, difficult, worth-getting-help-for territory rather than something you should have figured out already.
Trained in what actually works
I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, trained through Level 3 of the Gottman Method and in PACT and EFT. That's the research on what makes relationships work, and I bring it to people who are still deciding who they want to be in one. Most of that work reaches people once they're already partnered. I don't think you should have to wait that long.
Ways to Work With Me
Couples therapy
For partners who feel stuck in the same arguments, disconnected, or more like roommates.
What People Say
“I thought of you and all of the great work you did ... Thank you for being such an empathetic relationship whisperer.”
“I feel very content and at peace, and I know it's in no small part thanks to the time I had working with you, so thank you.”
“Beth is professional, yet warm and very easy to talk to. I am so thankful to have had Beth in my corner in this journey of self-discovery.”
“You have been pivotal in helping us move through this challenging transition... We couldn’t have done it without you.”